There are a lot of reasons you could have chosen this article: Are you struggling to please your man? Do you want to know how to leave him begging for more? Are you new to blojobs and want to learn more before you start? Regardless of your reasoning, there are many things you can do to make blowjobs more pleasurable for him and for you as well.
The very first thing to do is to observe. Of course, you should be watching how your partner acts to seduce you in the first place before you start to think about the blowjob. Is he a dominant type? If so, put yourself in a position in which you are under him or he can look down on you, such as kneeling. Is he a submissive type? Get on top of him while he is tied down, or tell him he can’t look at you while you do it.
Figuring out what your partner likes is always the first step in anything having to do with sex. Ask them about their masturbation and porn habits- what do they like about blowjobs or handjobs? Get to know what they think they might want to try or experience.
If your partner likes more attention on their shaft, or wants to try prostate simulation, that’s something to take into consideration for when you’re giving your partner oral sex. It would also be good if you communicated ideas that you had for oral sex with your partner, because no one likes a surprise finger up their butt!
When starting oral sex, make sure that you’re not just jumping right into deepthroating. This can turn your partner off. Tease your partner by kissing slowly down to their member or by licking around the penis, but not necessarily giving head. This will make your partner become more aroused so that they are more likely to be engaged in what you are about to do next.
From here, it’s important to remember a few things: make noises, like moaning and dirty talk, remember what your partner communicated to you, and try new things. Listen to the feedback your partner is giving you in the moment: if they’re moaning, then keep doing what you’re doing because you’re doing something right.
If you want to switch things up, you can try putting your whole body into it by laying on top of your partner or using your hands to massage their thighs and calves. If you’re looking for some stimulation yourself, encourage your partner to play with your nipples or clitoris. This will not only turn you on more (and therefore making your oral sex more enthusiastic) but also turn your partner on.
Overall, if you’re enthusiastic about pleasing your partner and making sure that you are giving them the best head you can, then it will be pleasurable for them. Make sure you communicate and are open to their wants and needs, and vice versa, and I’m sure you’ll have a great time.